No matter how good the relationship with your husband, having some romance in your life is beneficial for you. However, many people struggle with telling or hinting to their significant other that they want them to be more romantic or try new ways of being romantic.
In this relationship advice article, we will tell you everything that you need to know about how to make your husband more romantic.
How Can I Make My Husband Romantic – Encourage His Endeavors.
Just because your husband is acting romantic or romantic enough does not mean that he does not want to or is trying to. Instead, he may need some additional reassurance that you want some more spicing up of your love life. One of the ways that you can do is to tell him or to hint that you are enjoying and receptive to the steps that he is taking to be more adventurous in your love life.
Don’t Be Scared to Talk About It.
Sometimes it is not enough for you just to smile at your husband or try and give him cues through your body language, in fact, in the majority of cases out there the easiest, fastest and most straightforward way is to simply have a casual chat with your husband and just iron thing out. It may be embarrassing the first time you talk about it but after that, there will be nothing awkward and in fact, it will improve your love life significantly.
Moreover, speaking up is not just but telling your man that you want him to be more romantic, but it is also about being yourself and not being scared about making clear what you enjoy to do as being in a relationship is not about being a fake version of yourself to accommodate for your partner, but it is a place for both of you to individually grow and flourish.
Increase the Amount of Intimacy.
Related to the ‘encouragement’ section that we addressed earlier in this article, usually when your husband is not romantic enough is because there is currently not that high level of intimacy or the level of intimacy has slowly fizzled out as the relationship has aged. Therefore, you need to increase the amount of intimacy in your relationship, doing this is actually very simple, although it does take time.
You can start off with simple things such as cuddling on your couch while watching television, holding hands when out in public, kissing goodbye every morning and overall being a lot more touchy-feely while also being appropriate. This will help build up that bond and allow for a healthy relationship and give the confidence to your husband for them to be more adventurous and bold to be more romantic.
Help Him Relax.
Romance is a luxury, that cannot be afforded if your partner is constantly stressed from work or education for example as well as being tired. If you are looking for your husband to become more romantic, you need to make sure that they have the energy and the healthy state of mind to be able to focus on this fully.
If your partner is not in the mood for it which can be due to a very wide variety of reason, then you need to be understanding and let it be. Romance in a loving relationship should not be a chore for either of the partners, but instead, it should be something that they both want and love to do together.
If you are in love with someone and want to be with them for many years then you need to be prepared for the tough moments where your husband will be going through significant hurdles in their life where you need to support and help them overcome them rather than nagging them because your relationship has become temporarily less romantic.
The Little Things Matter Too.
Romance is not just about doing things in the bedroom, it is also about the smaller things in life and the things that you do together daily as a couple which can include watching your favorite television series, cooking, going out to the cinema and walking the dogs to name just a few examples.
By actively being more consistently romantic with the minor everyday activities that you do with your partner will help maintain a high level of intimacy and affection in your relationship no matter how long you have been together.
Tell Him That You Love Him.
Doing romantic things does not necessarily have to be physical, in fact, it can be as simple as telling your husband that you love him regularly such as when you say goodbye when going to work or when you go to your date night every Friday. Saying this simple phrase is one of the most effective that you can do to influence your partner in order to give them the determination and added boldness in order to undertake some more romantic endeavors and surprises.
Make Plans & Free up Time.
For your husband to plan something romantic will generally take a lot of effort and consideration, so you cannot leave it all for him to figure out. The least that you can do is to communicate with him and mutually decide a date based on your liking that can be once a week or a month for example where you will both try to be free in order to be able to get involved in the romantic endeavors your husband has prepared.
Becoming Experienced Takes Time.
For your husband to become better at romantic as with everything else in life takes time and a lot of practice, so if you have taken all the steps above in order to give your husband the pointers, confidence, and tips in order for him to be more romantic you also need to be patient and understanding as well as grateful that he is actually trying which shows that he loves you and cares about what you.
Every man will take a different amount of time to master the art of being a romantic husband; some will take longer than others however with all of them you will see a gradual improvement that should give you the confidence that you need. And remember, it is always good to have good communication to let your husband know about what you like and don’t like in your relationship.