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Causes of Childhood Conflicts with Parents

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 Family conflicts are quite common, and they range from sibling rivalry to competition and sometimes physical and verbal abuse. Sometimes parents tend to favor one child over others and this attitude brings on even more conflicts.

 Another reason for rising disagreements is poor communication between parents and children. It also happens that parents, and particularly mother, finds it difficult to spend time with her older kids when a new baby arrives.

 In this article, we are going to look at some of the causes of childhood conflicts with parents and see if those clashes can be avoided for the healthy and recompensing upbringing of kids.

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     Causes of Childhood Conflicts with Parents.

 Every household is different. For some parents, the healthy upbringing of their children is the top-most priority in life, and they are ready to forsake everything for this cause. They try to follow the best parenting practices and make sure there are very few disagreements with the kids.

 Childhood conflicts may arise due to a number of reasons. From misunderstandings that are not properly communicated to unfairness and injustice, there are many causes that bring on hostility and resentment in children.

 The feelings grow even stronger when the children enter their teens. But it is also a reality that people start talking about these conflicts only when the children have already grown up. At this stage, it gets even difficult to handle the situation and reverse the bitterness.

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 It is therefore important to address this important issue right from the beginning when the kids are still young. While parents may think it has something to do with the child’s nature or behavior, more often than not it is the parents’ fault.

   Here are a few reasons behind common conflicts occurring between parents and their children.

     Lack of Empathy and Understanding.

 Conflicts usually arise when there is a lack of empathy and compassion on both sides. But since children cannot be blamed for their shortcomings, the fault here lies with the parents.

 They need to understand what their children want and how to fulfill their desires by staying within limits. You, as a parent, must draw a line between right and wrong and offer your child an alternative for something immoral that he or she demands.

     Deficiency of Time and Commitment.

 Most working parents simply have no time to spend with the children. Believe it or not, most children are aware of this vacuum in their life and as a result, they start comparing themselves to other kids.

 The situation gets even worse when the kids reach their teen years. Parents must make time especially to spend with their kids on a daily basis. They can play games, go out together, watch TV, read books, or do anything that they all enjoy as a family.

     Injustice and Unfairness.

 Charity and justice both begin at home. When parents do not show fair behavior towards their children, disagreements and conflicts take place. Moreover, if parents reward one child for completing a task, they must make sure that others also get their share by doing something else.

 Favoritism is another concern that often gives rise to conflicts, and it comes in many shapes. You may either be showing more affection to one of their children or praising one of them more than others. This neglect is deep-felt and often turns into resentment when the child grows up.

     Frustration and Stress.

 Burnout has been recognized as the number one cause of disagreements at home. Everybody, including the children, must be given enough time to get some rest and stay energized.

 Parents must also find a way to get rid of their work-related stress so that they don’t find an excuse to lash out and make things worse. There are many ways to get rid of stress and stay mentally fit and healthy. The same practices must also be used to make sure children don’t get stressed out.

     Interference.

 Other people’s interference in the household is another cause of family conflicts. This meddling usually takes place from the in-laws, and there is usually very little that can be done about it.

 However, to prevent clashes, parents can make sure their children are not affected by this interfering by facilitating healthy communication and spending more time with them.

     Divorce or Separation.

 Divorce is one of the hardest decisions parents have to make and the ones who are affected the most are the children. More often than not, kids are not consulted in this important decision that indirectly affects their lives.

 They may disagree with either of their parents on this front, may have something to say, or may want to prevent it from happening at all costs. But unfortunately, neither of the partners thinks about the children when they are in the process of divorcing their spouse.

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     Finale.

 Childhood conflicts is a hot topic nowadays. Most parents are unaware of why their children show aggressive behavior, or why they seem to disagree with everything they are asked of. But the truth is, it is usually the parents who are at fault than the children, and they must address this issue right from the beginning.

 Unnecessary and consistent censure, unfairness, incompetency, lack of time, and guilt from the past are some of the causes of childhood conflicts with parents. All these problems can be resolved, but only if the parents are willing to resolve matters.

 In this day and age, it is even more important to resolve the conflicts before they turn into resentment and hatred. It is often seen that teenage conflicts are often a result of a neglected childhood. If parents want to present disagreements and fights when their children grow up, they must take steps early on.

 Depending on your child’s behavior, you can adopt certain parenting practices to make sure conflicts do not occur. And even if they do, they get resolved in no time at all. Consider the reasons discussed in this post and learn how to make informed and correct decisions with your beloved children.

   Also read the article: Why Children Argue with their Parents?

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